People think about sex much more often than they actually perform it. It is because people do not have enough satisfying and fulfilling sex.
Liberating sexual intercourse from speed and stress removes the pressure on performance that comes with meeting expectations and achieving goals.
Impotence, erection loss, erectile dysfunction, or premature ejaculation are a signal that the body has lost its natural sensitivity due to pressure, tension and performance orientation.
With conscious slow lovemaking, we strengthen and develop our actual potential and not our imaginations. We are living our experience right here and right now, not somewhere there in the imaginative goal we have created, which is limited by of our experiences and which is depriving us from the opportunity to discover new, deeper, more intense sexual experiences.
Slow conscious lovemaking acts as a cure to many long-term sexual problems such as:
- Loss of erection and erectile dysfunction
- Premature ejaculation
- Numbness
- Loss of energy
- Sexual disinterest
- Sexual boredom
- Sexual stereotype
- Disconnection from source
- Loss of sexual charisma
- Loss of sexual joy and pleasure
- Problems reaching orgasm
- Low sexual energy
- Low self-esteem and many others.
Self-consciousness is the driving force behind slow conscious sex.
It’s not what you do; it’s how you do it.
Conscious slow lovemaking is moment-oriented, not goal-oriented. If we disconnect from the goal and the ego, we do not have a picture of the future – that is, orgasm, we begin to perceive ourselves and our partner as much as possible.
Suddenly we feel his/her scent, warmth and coldness, body vibrations, we perceive the taste of kisses, vibrations of touch, relaxation or tension and intuitively consciously progresses to higher sexual vibrations.
Intense sexual connection and perception of a partner heals us, increases our vitality, increases sexual and life energy, opens the door to new sexual and sensory experiences, and more importantly prolongs erection and increases its quality.
After conscious slow lovemaking, we feel vital and full of energy, we are not exhausted chasing after the sexual goals we have created.